To be honest, fantasies about being in committed relationships with girls aren't often that EXCITING, I'm pretty sure that everyone thinks more about having sex etc with ppl than holding their hands or whatever. So if you're convinced that you're straight -not saying that you're not - but that closes you off to liking girls quite a lot.
Also, ppl in porn, unsuprisingly, aren't ussually marriage or relationship material so you might find that if you watch romantic lesbian films or other romance films with straight girls, that you like some of the women and could possibly want to be in a relationship with one of them! I was only ever really attracted to girls in real life after accepting (even just a little) that I liked girls in films and tv shows.
say in the lesbian porn you watched you liked a girl called 'Max' or 'Bella' or something (idk man) just picture yourself with those individuals regardless of gender. My advice is not to think about whether you like girls or guys but to consider whether you would date or be intimate with SPECIFIC ppl, like. I could only picture myself being in relationships with guys and never women! I am bisexual but was 110% convinced that I was only into guys for the same exact reason for literally YEARS. Have sex with and love whoever you want and when you find a label that suits what you feel you can use it, if there is never a label then you can just be youĭon't worry about trying to define your sexuality at the minuite, though it sounds like you could be bisexual. Also, try not to feel the need to define yourself. If you do want to sleep with girls and boy there's nothing wrong with being bi. Women are more empathic when it comes to sex and arousal so if you know you fall in love with men and only want to date men, you're probably straight and getting turned on by sexually relevant content. Scientific studies have shown women clips of animals having sex, two men having sex, two women, even sex that seemed to be non consenting and while the women had said that they were obviously against bestiality, rape or that they were straight and not interested in women, it was found that they experienced subconscious arousal during these clips. These are things that involve sex but are not sex that is happening to that person at that moment. There are a lot of books about the fact that women are more likely to be turned on by things that are sexually relevant than men are. The majority of lesbian porn is watched by women, not men. Often that is why women watch lesbian porn. Nothing wrong with your feelings.Ī lot of women get turned on by seeing other women turned on.
You're sexually attracted to men and women, so I would say you're bi. Sexuality is about who you are sexually attracted to. is that an actual thing or is it fake? What do i tell people? Ugh I’m so confused! Helppp meee pleaseee!!
I read something about being hetroromantic homosexual.
Is this a wrong feeling? What am i feeling? Am i even straight? I just need help. I used to have a lesbian best friend and i used to think alot about sleeping with her but never thought of being in a relationship with her. I find myself fantasising about girls and i want to sleep with a girl (but I can’t because i am a restricted asian girl lol) anyways i enjoy thinking about girls in a sexual way but if i think about getting into a relationship with one I don’t really find it to be something i want. I find them to be so hot and when ever i watch lesbian porn it turns me on alot!! Don’t get me wrong i think boys are so hot and i would definitely not turn them down but if i had to choose between a one night stand with a boy and one night stand with a girl i would choose the girl. However much recently I’ve been getting attraction to girl but not in a romantic way at all. I see myself getting married to a boy, having kids with him ect. Like i love boys, obsessed with them and can fall in love so quickly with them.